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- My letter to my daughters for #fathersday at @leaninorg bit.ly/1bDSca0 #leaningin #fatherhood #parenting #moderndad #sahd 2 days ago
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Monthly Archives: November 2011
naptime
Today I took a nap. And it was good. I like to take naps. If I could take a nap every day, I would. I don’t know what it is about taking care of children that is so draining. I … Continue reading
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Tagged fatherhood, nablopomo, nablopomo day 19, SAHD, self-care, sleep
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night shift
So, this is day 18 of NaBloPoMo, and I’ve managed to keep the habit going except for the one night I was unable to get online or have access to WordPress. Week-and-a-half left. Have I written only great stuff? No. … Continue reading
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Tagged creativity, nablopomo, nablopomo day 18, the writing life, time management, work-life balance, writing
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the mouth
Cute, right? I mean, there’s no doubt—The Button is a frakkin’ adorable kid. The crazy little dances she does, the funny things that come out of her mouth, and the expressions she makes on that face, which that same mouth … Continue reading
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Tagged defiance, nablopomo, nablopomo day 17, oral fixation, parenting, toddlers
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#asiandadspotting: pnc grow up great
Usually, this sort of thing would be reserved for a post over on Rice Daddies [and I will post this over there soon, I promise] but, well, it’s NaBloPoMo, and just past the halfway mark, so here it is. Asian American dads … Continue reading
grownup talk and teh internetz is magic
Several times in recent days I’ve been reminded how powerful a tool the internet is for connecting people. I started blogging, about being a stay-at-home-dad, because, in the absence of a like-minded community on the ground, I had discovered a … Continue reading
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Tagged blogging, community, friendship, internet, nablopomo, nablopomo day 15, social networking
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miss personality
The Button is just two months shy of turning three years old, and while she continues to be, shall we say, on the small side [or as her physician mother and her physician calabash uncles and aunts say, “she’s on … Continue reading
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Tagged 2-year-olds, 3-year-olds, fatherhood, little sisters, nablopomo, nablopomo day 14, personality, tantrums, terrible twos, terrific threes, The Button, toddlers
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rad friends and family
[After last night's unscheduled hiatus brought to you by my parents' being in between ISPs, my WordPress iPhone app not working, and WordPress on Safari for iPhone being equally wonky in different ways, NaBloPoMo is back on track!] If I … Continue reading
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Tagged community, family, fatherhood, friendship, gratitude, Lisa Yee, Mista Cookie Jar, nablopomo, nablopomo day 13, Rad Dad, Skylight Books, Tomas Moniz
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family portrait
Today we raced the clouds and impending rain to do our first real family photo shoot with a professional photographer since The Button made us a family of four almost three years ago. Our friend Patrick Ang (a.k.a. The Other … Continue reading
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Tagged Bakersfield, downtown Bakersfield, family portraits, LA, nablopomo, nablopomo day 11, Patrick Ang, photography, Rad Dad, Skylight Books, weekend
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words with friends
We got to Russo’s a little early to get ready for tonight’s Rad Dad reading and meet up with anthology editor Tomás Moniz. Looking out at the rows of empty folding chairs, I started to get a little nervous. What … Continue reading
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Tagged Bakersfield, fatherhood, friends, gratitude, nablopomo, nablopomo day 10, Rad Dad, readings, Russo's Books, Tomas Moniz, writing
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happy thankful
A year or two ago, worried about The Pumpkin taking for granted our family’s lifestyle and not appreciating what she had, we started a dinnertime tradition we called “happy thankful.” We’d go around the table and each person would have … Continue reading
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Tagged family rituals, gratitude, happiness, nablopomo, nablopomo day 9, reflection
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